February 5, 2006

Now, Not Later

Five years ago this month my husband died of a heart attack. This past week, my close friend’s husband died suddenly of a heart attack. Rejoicing in their lives, we know that each was deeply loved and will forever be a part of us.

AWAKE and know that there are things to do now and not put off until later. Remember the saying: we never know what tomorrow will bring. Believe me, it is true.

My years with my husband were short but they were an oasis wrapped in love. We traveled to foreign lands, had candlelight dinners on our best china, rode in a convertible and held hands a lot. With six children from previous marriages, we drew a circle and put God in the middle, us in the first concentric circle and the children in the second. Life was good and we filled it to the fullest.

In mid-January, 2006, I made a trip to see my brother with the marked intention of sharing our childhood “remember when’s” and working on my life’s timeline. I needed to get people, dates and events in the correct order; things only we share as he is the remaining member of my family of origin. What grand, meaningful conversations we had and drawing in my sister in law, and nephews added great value. I had been thinking of this for a long while. I did it now, not later.

When my grandchildren are 8 and 16 years old, I take them on a trip, just the two of us. Soon, my grandson and I will make a trip to Washington, DC, to see the respected sights in our Nation’s Capitol. Getting that on the calendar has been a challenge, but I prevailed with a lot of flexibility.

All this to say, that making plans now not later makes your life more fulfilled, avoids heartache from missed opportunity, and can bring the happiness you seek.

Coaching Tips:

• Is there a relationship in your life that needs clarity?
  
  
• What conversation do you need to schedule?
  
  
• Are there traditions you will enjoy establishing?

Do it now, not later!

Coaching with me will assist you in setting your strategy to get these decisions and events accomplished in a timely manner. Call me.

With warm regards,

Susan Sadler Hayman
International Life Transitions Coach
Call me at 662-238-7754
www.susanhayman.com

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